Break the Rules
We need rules, because anarchy only looks appealing in a big-screen action movie. Ever been driving the speed limit on a highway and glance at
November 13, 2023
Author: Fred Oduyoye
Break The Rules
We need rules, because anarchy only looks appealing in a big-screen action movie. Ever been driving the speed limit on a highway and glance at
November 2, 2023
Fred Oduyoye
Intentional Patterns of Relational Healing
Every day brings a new reminder that—on both a macro and micro scale—we human beings have a very hard time getting along. Tension leads to
October 24, 2023
Fred Oduyoye
The Roots of Reconciliation
We’ve all felt awkward and uncomfortable trying to navigate the icebergs in our cultural ocean. We see the tips of our wrong assumptions, our ignorance,
October 3, 2023
coaching
The Golden Opportunities of Conflict
Just a ballpark guess, but let’s say 95% of people hate conflict and will actively avoid it if they can. Of the remaining 5%, some
September 17, 2023
Fred Oduyoye
To Know, Not Just See
We all know the phrase “seeing is believing”—it’s a truism that’s true, depending on the kind of “seeing” we’re talking about. In our relationships with
August 28, 2023
Fred Oduyoye
The Power of a Selfie
We have become a selfie culture—at least once today you’ll either take a selfie or see someone else doing the same. Some people have turned
August 15, 2023
Fred Oduyoye
Things that Escape our notice
One key to building relational bridges in a divisive and isolating culture is simple – we notice what we notice about others, and gently (but
July 21, 2023
Fred Oduyoye
The #1 Barrier to Relationship
There’s a sneaky saboteur that has the power to undermine our ability to make and keep relationships. It’s especially effective at thwarting reconciling relationships when
March 6, 2023
The Agenda-Changer
Police brutality meted out on people of color is embedded in the video feed of our culture. Not even two weeks after honoring the legacy
February 6, 2023